20 THINGS YOU SHOULD DO TO MAKE YOUR PARTNER HAPPY

Until your partner is happy,  you can not be truly satisfied in the home. Every responsible man or woman derives joy and pleasure in the happiness of his or her partner . But the secret is you must give in order to get it. Therefore we need to know what husbands expect from their wives to make them happy.
20 THINGS HUSBANDS EXPECT FROM THEIR WIVES
1. Treat your husband like a king, make him feel important. It boosts his self-esteem both at home and outside the home. He will treat you like a queen if you value him. Respect they say is reciprocal.
2. Dress neat, smart and sexy at all times. Look good for your husband always. Men appreciate your good looks/appearance.
3. Learn how to control and mind your tongue. Learn how to , when to, and where to talk
4. Try to keep the home neat always. This defines the man's reputation outside and how family and friends view the home.
5. Maintain a regular weight. Husbands don't like it when their wives gain weight. Try to keep fit & slim down
6. Be polite always. Courtesy is wisdom.
7. Be quick to say I'm sorry dear.
8. Be conscious of time when going out with your family. Dress up early and prepare the children early.
9. Don't paint your husband bad to the children. Negative images are hard to erase from the mind. Talk to the children in a way that they will love, appreciate and acknowledge their dad.
10. Don't leave the children unattended to.
11. Accept and relate well with your in-laws and family members. They are the ones to come to your aid in case of any misunderstanding.
12. Help your husband in paying bills if you can.
13. Be hospitable. Make your visitors feel free and welcomed by coming out to greet them. Offer them water if there is no food or drink or ask for money to buy or use your money. Your husband can refund if the visitor is gone.
14. Don't disrespect your husband. Wives earn more respect if they give it to their husbands first. Most husbands are not perfect and they know it. Despite their imperfections, they respond quite well to corrections when it is given in a loving and constructive way. Husbands simply wants to feel respected.
15. Be disciplined and wise in spending. Don't waste your hubby's resources.
16. Don't try to claim rights. Even though you have some rights , don't impose  & forcefully try to claim them, lest you loose them.
17. Make your husband laugh and smile and want to hang around you. If the atmosphere in the home is tensed, he may want to go out to somewhere else so that he is not suffocated.
18. Every husband appreciates good food. Being a good cook is not an endowment, it is learnt. Even if you have to go to a catering school to make him eat good food, he will appreciate it.
19. Don't belittle, back bite or gossip him with anyone. If there are issues that need to be addressed, find a quiet time when you can talk-just the two of you.
20. Husbands don't appreciate nagging. Just make your request and believe in him to do it at his convenient time. No amount of nagging can change a man . Nagging only complicates issues and create tension in the home. Use plea instead.
21. Men love sex, don't withhold it. Sex should never be used as a bargaining chip.
22. Be his friend and stop acting like his mom
23. Don't prioritize anyone or anything at your man's expense. Make him feel he is number one in your priority.
24. Don't get intimate with the opposite sex on social media chat (Facebook, whatsapp, instagram etc)
25. Plan together with him.

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